Most people, especially in these trying economic times, are realizing the importance of living a self-sufficient life. This type of lifestyle allows one to live on their own, as they see fit, and take care of themselves in every conceivable fashion (by themselves). It’s a way for people to disconnect themselves from the tempestuous world we live in that seems to be filled with more lies, corruption, and greed every day.
The entire concept of being self-sufficient is another way of expressing/having Independence and Freedom.
When one gets properly self-sufficiently established, their lives are typically permeated by feelings of peace. One realizes that it is up to them, and only them, to be reliant on survival and creating an environment where they can rest happily, content, and safely. The greatest part is leaving the rest of the corruption, politics, and senseless garbage behind them.
I had a friend I went to high school with who went off to college. I spoke to him a few months later and he had something quite revealing to say. He stated that, in college, that he had to learn to take care of himself. He said that if he wanted to wear clean clothes, then he had to take the time out to wash them. If he didn’t wash them, then he only had dirty clothes to wear. If he wanted something to eat, he had to plan ahead and purchase food and then prepare to cook it if he wanted to eat. The next lesson he learned was that if he didn’t bother to clean the dishes after his last meal, that he had nothing clean to eat off of. If he didn’t pay the electric bill, then they would turn off his electricity…
It was an incredible awakening for him, as he had moved out of his family’s house to live on his own. He hadn’t realized how protected and cared for he was until he had to do it on his own. He realized that he had taken for granted all of the things that were provided to him by his parents. Now that he was on his own, with only himself to accept responsibility or blame for whatever occurred in his life, he was awakened by the smell of reality.
(I’ve often wondered if this isn’t one of the best lessons that universities, indirectly, really teach.)
Acquiring self-sufficiency takes on many methods and meanings. Some people want to have enough money that they can have the freedom to do what they want, whenever they want. This is surely a form of a sufficiency that offers comfort and freedom that most people desire. Just imagine winning the lottery and realizing that you don’t have to go to work tomorrow morning, if you don’t feel like it; and, if you so desire, you can walk into the office of your boss and quote the title of a song made famous by Johnny Paycheck. You know, the one where you tell your boss where to insert your job. If Country music isn’t your style, the Dead Kennedy’s did a more intensive cover of this song. Or if movies are your thing, the movie, of the same title, was released in 1981.
Sexuality can also become a form of self-sufficiency, too. The act of autofellatio is whereby a man can orally stimulate his own penis; where for women the similar act is called autocunnilingus. These abilities are simply extensions and creative forms of masturbation. However, with these “auto” techniques, one is able to explore and evoke pleasures that are hardly available with more conventional means of masturbation. This is what makes them special.
Learning these methods is certainly a way for people to become truly self-reliant in the sexual field. Allowing them to create a sexual independence or a sexual freedom, if they so desire. It’s one other tool for the toolbox of the individual who wants to realize autonomy.
Exploring unconventional methods of sexuality; methods that our ancestors enjoyed and impassioned themselves with, is one of my interests. Those men and women who are interested in autofellatio should read Yogafellatio. It is a book that helps guide men down this sexually exciting and interesting path.